mind bombs

Just like when most girls are like most girls who say ‘I’m not like most girls’ ……the same applies for boys. If you have to try convince someone you’re ’not like other guys’ by unnecessarily stating it somewhen, chances are you’re trying to cover up a persona which hints you are ‘that guy’.

There are good people about (somewhere). But both sexes need to evaluate themselves before considering what they ‘want, need and deserve’. A man can’t use and abuse girls and their feelings, rack up 30-40 numbers and then go on like their wife needs to be a Christian virgin. If you act like a hoe, you deserve you a hoe. You don’t deserve a nice innocent girl, how disrespectful is that towards her if anything. Just like a girl can’t go on like she deserves a hard working faithful man when all she does is rave and steal £1 earrings from Primark. If you act right, you’ll get right. It’s a bit far fetched and shouldn’t be taken literally as no one would end up with anyone haha but don’t preach about what you want, when it’s nowhere near what you deserve when judged by your own standards.

Same for the opposite….don’t settle for what you want if it’s not what you deserve. No one is more important than you at the end of the day.

Back to my main point…RUN A BLOODY MILE from any faggot male who claims they ain’t ‘like that’ because pumpkin…he’s like that.

You are now watching the throne

Last night i watched, fell in love and tried to steal the throne. So basically this means the Jay Z and Kanye West ‘Watch The Throne’ concert was on another level. Off the chain, yo.

There was a lot of talk beforehand about what was to be expected. Support acts? Didn’t appear to be any. Stage time? Different from other gigs…and low and behold, there were no support acts and a loooong stage time. You know why? BECAUSE THEY CAN. Ball so hard the 02 wanna fineee them…What’s a 2 hour set to these motherfuckers can we please remind them.

It was literally crazy…

SO CRAZY KANYE DANCED LIKE THIS LIKE NO ONE WAS WATCHING

but…we were. We all watched. And I didn’t quite know how to feel about it to be honest, but when you’re a cocky cunt like Kanye….anything goes and i’m prepared to see a couple white boys try re enact this dance at some point thinking it’s the new skank. It’s not…but wevs, do your thing.

Anyway….it was incredible. Except for when the girls around me were too concerned with looking crisp and pretty…i was just there like…

nah mean? You can’t go to a Jay Z & Kanye concert and not even bop. Me and my bestie were throwing our best gun fingers and rap voices like there was no tomorrow. I even got on some random brother’s shoulders just so i could give Jay a wink… he told me to call him but I like Beyonce man so allow it, I’m not going to be that girl. He is on it though, who isn’t

To some it up…that shit was cray (vom) They played some classssics, and some new ones off the album (obviously). If you don’t go….YOUR LIFE IS SHIT. PROPER SHIT. SOZ. x

Anonymous asked: you love a moan hahahaha. nice blog though, you're a smart blonde.

im predominantly brunette but that’s irrelevant lol. I dont ‘love a moan’ as suchhhhh haha, im actually often in content moods when i rant, just like to get other things off my chest apart from my bra :)

Anonymous asked: why do you respond to people who are horrible to you? there probably just jealous and i think ignoring them is the better answer

I respond to let them know that i honestly don’t care what they think. It’s only jarring when 100% of people with something to say, will say it behind the security of knowing i won’t find out who it was. and that’s laughable to me, that automatically makes me think im two steps ahead of them anyway because they’re too insecure and scared to say an opinion. ridiculous and irrelevant opinions at that.

it’s all rather nonsenical. a jumble of insults with no substational evidence to support their argument. If they’re not my closest homies then i do naaaat care :)

Anonymous asked: wats yr fave position? hehe

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Anonymous asked: I think reason why you are so sarcastic is because you are very unhappy with yourself, so you project your insecurities onto people that can't fight back, i.e celebrities. Such a common defense mechanism, if you are already miserable then no-one can disappoint you and make you miserable. Anyways favourite Jcole song? Mine is 'Lights please'.

I disagree, on the basis that i am not unhappy in myself lol. I’m actually rather content. nobody’s perfect but i’m not tryna be so :s
people are sarcastic for many different reasons, and i don’t link my sarcasm into my dislike towards celebrities. and i also never claimed to actually ‘dislike’ celebrities. I stand by my thoughts that commercialism, materialism and the glorification of shallow objects and lifestyles shouldn’t be what we aspire for. our ambitions shouldnt to ‘want to be famous because Kim Kardashian has soo much fun’ …
my humour is quite dry, sarcastic and rude, it’s not a representation of who i am within myself, but if that’s how it appears then duly noted.

in terms of JCole…. Losing my balance and Autograph are my favourite :) x

Anonymous asked: Do you know you don't actually have a big bum, its normal size for your body. I don't know why you constantly stick your bum out in pictures. it's really sad and yes we have seen you in real life.

lol hmm, im wondering if it’s more sad that you felt the need to highlight something so irrelevant to me. focus on your life rather than mine, im insignificant to you, therefore what i do with my bum lol shouldn’t be of any concern to you.
every girl poses a certain way in photo’s, that’s just my way. If i like the way i look in then then what’s the harm?
How i pose should be the least of your worries, maybe concentrate on not spending your time looking through my photo’s and hiding behind an anonymous questions box? lol dunno, just a thought..

but anyway, regardless of whether my bum is ‘big’ or not…i like it and so do other people so umm, have a good day?! :) x